Gay men are hypocrites!

This is the reason I decided to start a blog today. I realised that I had some whinging to do that could possibly make me sound insane to anyone who cared enough to listen.

So my first rant is about how gay men are hypocrites. Please, do not misunderstand. I am not against gays or a homophobe ... and until recently my life mission was to have a gay best friend. You know a guy (just like Will from Will and Grace) who I could bitch to about other men and take shopping and all that fun stuff.

Well, a few months ago this prayer of mine was answered when my best friend decided to out himself. Now, this is a huge secret and no one is allowed to know (including my boyfriend ... who I met through my friend ... they are REALLY close). So anyways, he still has to act all macho and manly and we very rarely get to do those things that I always dreamed of doing with my gay best friend.

Instead what I get is backstabbing hypocrisy. A few months ago (when he was still pretending to be straight) he went on a giant rant (in front of my boyfriend) about girls who expect their boyfriends to pay for stuff and how women are stupid because they want all the perks of being a woman (eg - having a man pay for her) and yet fight for equality.

So, anyway, he had this massive rant about how everything should be 50/50 in a relationship. Which I actually agree with. Okay, maybe 55/45. I like to be spoiled from time to time! And just put me down MASSIVELY in front of my boyfriend. I'm not the kind of person who expects him to pay for things anyways. If my BF pays for dinner, I pay for the movies, or I pick up the bill next time. 'Cause that's how I roll. But this rant of my friend's really got to me. It's like he was purposely trying to put me down.

Anyways, now guess who has a bf? That's right. My best friend. And turns out he's the girl in the relationship since his boyfriend pays for ABSOLUTELY everything when the two of them go out. Including buying him gifts and stuff.

Not that I care about that. It's his life. What I do hate however is that now he talks about it like its perfectly normal. Like that's how it's meant to be. He BRAGS about it. And even worse we were sitting down having lunch today, me, my 'bestie' and the only one of our friends who actually knows his secret and we are talking about dating and stuff and he has the nerve to say to me, "Oh but your bf's not like that, eh?"

Fucking asshole.

And seriously, I don't have a jealous bone in my body. Letting a guy pay for me would feel kinda close to prostitution. But, his stupid hypocrisy pisses me off. So girls are whores and users if they get "treated right" but gay men have a right to be? God, I hate double standards.

No, I didn't tell him this. I am too much of a lady for that.